Mera naam Lara hai, aapakee kahaanee kya hai?

I have learned today that life is like a ppt presentation. Each slide is the projection of light the body emanates given certain filters, the emotions and feelings have, of something we see or live.

One slide might be beautiful because it is the projection of a person you like and your body filters it with so good emotions and feelings that the light you project makes an amazing slide.

Another slide might not be so beautiful because the light it projects is darker given the darker emotions and feelings that certain situation provokes in you, so will be the light you will make others see.

After a while, you will become the set of slides you project the most, if you know this, you will be able to select the filters of emotions and feelings you will use to embrace any situation and then the light you will project will be as you wish…

Easier said than done, well here I share a beautiful learning from my 2 years in India.

Before coming to India, my introduction “I am Lara” was carried with many slides and set of presentations I brought with me. The projections I had were already filtered and worked a lot for years wanting to become a better human being. One of the reasons to choose India was because I believed India traditional culture would bring me to another level as a human being.

I am not sure if I was right or wrong, I am not sure what exactly brought me to be who I am today, and I am a completely different person from the one who arrived in India… I am still Lara, but the shadows of understanding that build my core have changed, and I am a much more “Indian” person – many Indians will disagree, but I promise you, there is something in Indias, related to goodness and something bigger that come into our souls…

One of the biggest learning are the magic 3 words…

Unconditional positive regard 

“(UPR) is a term credited to humanistic psychologist Carl Rogers and is used in client-centered therapy. Practicing unconditional positive regard means accepting and respecting others as they are without judgment or evaluation.”

Since these 3 words entered in my life a very different set of slides started to be projected. Even in the worst moments I have asked myself;

…and then I try to think on what is the impact on people – I have learned sometimes in the hardest way that Unconditional Positive Regard is finally of utmost importance when we are in the worst moments of our lives – to always try to make the most positive impact, or…. the least negative impact.

In order to make Unconditional Positive Regards work, is important to have SELF AWARENESS – conscious knowledge of one’s own character and feelings.

Having conscious knowledge of your own character and feelings, so whatever situation will come to your door, you will be able to process it and filter with Unconditional Positive Regard, then the light that will project the next slide of your life will be much more beautiful than it usually would be…

Since this combination of self awareness and Unconditional Positive Regards entered my life, I have evolved as leader, as mother, as wife, as a human being; somehow, I feel clear consciousness of what kind of lights I want to project in the next set of slides which will build my next presentation, sourced by my 2 years with my team in India, let others know myself and know others better – and this looks something like this;

Mera naam Lara hai, aapakee kahaanee kya hai?


What lenses do you choose to see your world?

My whole life I heard my mother telling me that, the lenses I wear are the lenses I will see the world!

This gave me something to start with…

I remember later on, this coming back to my mind in a different situation in my professional life.

One day a colleague commented, about a person talking about another one, – “what Paul says about Peter tells us more about Paul than about Peter”.

People can only see in others what they know or have inside them…

Back then I liked it, but lately I am understanding what an incredible insight these both lessons build together…

Only by observing others talking about a situation or a person, you can identify how the world is seen by them, and the world can only be seen from who they are. The same apply to us!

We will always live; talk, comment, suggest given the lenses we wear, depending on the moment priorities, choices, fears.

How many times we get upset because somebody is angry with us, and we forget that this is only a result of the lenses the person is wearing, literally, this is their problem with you, not your problem!

… and reacting trying to answer or help the other to solve the problem, will never work, unless you ask them, exactly WHAT (and not why) is that they are thinking, what are their assumptions?

Indeed when you start to observe more, this can be a great opportunity to go to another level… to learn about others, yourself and even more – to bring all moments to a place where good opportunities are always emerging!

Suddenly your lenses can turn your life into an universe of infinite possibilities!

A wonderful way to do it consciously (at least my learning the last months, year!) can be by using the reframing process in the book Quantum Leader from Danah Zohar, using some of the #SQprinciples to see the world with more possibilities.

When you want to start a conversation, feedback, negotiation, at home or at work, to be both authentic, clear and also open to listen and increase possibility of co-creation the steps can be:

(1) be #selfaware, (be prepared to share your What clearly, what is that you are observing, describe the situation) also know that others will have their own views

(2) be #valueandvisionled (be prepared to tell your wants and needs, what do you really need? Knowing your purpose and values is fundamental, this helps bringing consistency to your life)

(3) be open to #celebratediversity – ask what is that the other is seeing and observe – always be curious about others perspective

– even if others’ views or situations are bringing discomfort, aim to identify the discomfort and look for what you want so you can #positivelyUseAdversity

(4) be able to #reframe – identify what emotion was driving you and use free will to choose what you really want and what emotion you would like to drive what you really want! Focus on what you want, trying to identify a common intention with the other person. Reframing is identifying the emotion driving a discomfort certain situation brings to you and finally focusing on what you want.

The last year has been a great learning period of my life, learning not only to lead this different journey professionally but also in how to bring it to my personal life in the education of my kids, where discernment is the center of their education. Trying to help people to be able to take own decisions, doing their best to identify the impact it might have in our own selves, others directly close and the society, community around us!

Knowing that we will always have either a positive or negative impact in people, no matter what our intention is, is crucial…

So, the lenses you choose to see the world will determine your actions and the impact you will have in others, and in your life…

Which lenses would you like to wear? The one seeing an universe of infinite possibilities or a world of endless problems?


What if Sutras, Upanishads, Geeta would be guiding the world management theories instead of Taylor, Fayol, Weber?????

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After reading once more the Kata Upanishad, I had a moment of reflection, thinking about everything we are trying to do in my company and how we used to work in the past. Suddenly I noticed that, somehow, some of the principles of transformational management we want to implement, the ones based on Laloux book*, Wholeness, Evolutionary Purpose, Self Management, are nothing more than the principles of Quantum management, Danah Zohar book Quantum Leader – and BOTH are nothing more than a revival of old scriptures of India – the world most hidden and wise life-science books….

Where the world is evolving to, is to the most ancient wisdom – ALL human beings are capable of anything, provided that they are a whole with themselves and with everything that surrounds him/her! If the human being is given the right environment, his/her highest motivation will be his/her own pursuit for meaning and self realization. All basic material needs being provided, they will look for a meaning and this will be the most powerful motivation tool than any other material incentive.

So why we, as humanity, have arrived where we are today? Believing that other human beings are only motivated by material incentive, that they are not deeply spiritual, that they will not come to work for something bigger than just for a pay check?

My insight was coming back to my days of Quantum Leader workshop – all the western management theories were based on the Newtonian science, believing that the knowing the parts and being able to perfect each part separately, you can make a better whole. While we know in quantum physics, and in any Indian ancient scripture, that if we will perfect one part alone you will create a completely different whole, and maybe destroy the whole. In order to be able to tackle an issue you have to see it as a whole, if you look parts of it you will never perfect it at its maximum potential…

So the fragmentation of Medicine, Management, and all other theories is purely fruit of newtonian theory – which brought us to believe that to understand the whole we have to separate the parts. Bringing to the belief that, we are individuals separated from each others, cities separated, states, countries, and each one wants to have the maximum for ourselves, destroying the whole. But we would be able to get much more if we would see ourselves as a whole…

Well, let us come back to management theories and compare what would be the world today, if we would have been guided by the Indian ancient scriptures!!

Let’s take a look on the “old management theory”, where the search was to “fragment the management” and to control the productivity through the control of human being, transforming it in Human Resource… Goals and clear objectives  were crucial, as they could not see the whole and take decisions by themselves, also motivation would be low, finally THIS human being from Newton’s belief, would never come to work for his/her own purpose, but for material incentive, so you better have a good compensation system, not matter the why of your company!

For all to review the business class theories:

Taylors principle of scientific management:

· Science, not rule-of-thumb;
· Scientific selection of the worker
· Management and labour cooperation rather than conflict
· Scientific training of workers

Weber’s bureaucratic approach:

Predictability and stability

Fayol’s principle of management: administrative theory

· Division of work (specialization)
· Authority and responsibility
· Discipline
· Unity of command
· Unity of direction
· Subordination of individual interest
· Remuneration of personnel
· Centralization
· Scalar chain
· Order
· Equity
· Stability of tenure of personnel
· Initiative
· Esprit de corps
· The concept of line and staff
· Committees
· Functions of management
– planning
– organizing
– training
– commanding
– coordinating

Check here for a thorough view of these theories (http://www.fao.org/3/w7503e/w7503e03.htm)


But what are the modern books telling us???

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*Laloux book is bringing examples of corporations and start ups, or modern leaders who are bringing a fresh new way of driving their business, and today our company is striving to do the same.

Quantum Leader brings clearly the new management theory from the perspective of quantum physics and define clearly what a quantum leader and a quantum organization should be and tools for you to implement the mind set.

Otto Scharmer is famous for his U Theory, which is derived from the famous Dialogue concept of David Bohm

The main principles of the Laloux book, which is a simple view of them all, for lay people as us, in a very rough summary:


Transform ego-system to an eco-system – what does it mean? Instead of looking purely to their own profits, the companies should look to the eco-system they are part of, and instead of predicting the future, like in Weber’s theory, you build the future, aware of the impact you bring and helping the system to be “healthier”. They should see the company as one with all parts it is composed and all parts it is impacting. From Quantum theory, the entanglement theory and the understanding that whatever you do, you will have an impact, so let us impact positively, let us help co-creating the eco-system. This is pure Purusha, Prakriti, the search for the final connection Samadi, when you understand that you and the world are one, and whatever you will think, will transform in words and will transform in your reality, the power of consciousness….


The new management theories understand that the WHY is more important than the WHAT and the HOW, the what and how can only be sustainable if the Why is correct. As in each one of us!! It does not matter what we are doing and how we are doing, if we get to the 50’s and we are super successful, honest, but we are working in something that destroys the future of our kids, we will all get frustrated, and not proud, then we will seek for our true Why… the same applies for companies, societies, etc… What is your Why? What is your company’s why? This in quantum physics, is the essence of everything…. and in the Indian ancient texts is the self-realization, the identification with your Higher Self, which understands that there is something more than our eyes can see, our ears can hear and our nose can smell…

Self Management:

Another beautiful concept!!

The belief that each one is so powerful that utilizing the power of each individual together will bring something much more organized and powerful than a command control system controlling individuals. Of course, provided you have the right processes, framework and the right people doing the right things, and above all, the right Why is there. Then, the world of  infinite possibilities opens up! …and  this is the quantum dynamic system in the Quantum Leader book, in quantum theory this is what explains for example, ourselves – the human being is the most complex living system and it is self organized, we evolve, get old, but we always have certain functions that should be working well, so we function in our best state. It does not matter if we have a super huge strong right arm if our kidney is failing, but when we are at our best, we do not notice when we are breathing, digesting, and we will still be running a marathon – the perfect harmony. When we try to control it and try to over train it, we stress it, we have to balance it, know it, let it guide itself…


Do you see the beauty that I am seeing,? Do you see the insight I have day after day being in India?

Most probably the Indians that are reading my blog will understand my excitement to realize that, the highest scientific wisdom we can find in the world is just sitting among us!

I believe that, if Eastern world would have been guiding the Industrial revolution, there would not be a scale in production separated in parts, where humans are resources and not beings, but it would be evolving with all parts of the eco-system and making a world that would have evolved incredibly better.

Transformational leaders in different fields like David Bohm, Steve Jobs, have learned from Indian wisdom. Did you know, that Steve Jobs besides having spent years in India he has left for the guests of his memorial, a copy of Yogananda Paramahansa, “The autobiography of a Yogi” as a “Life Tip” for humanity, because he believed that the true manual of life, is already among us for centuries, within the Indian scriptures?

So, this is the reason why I believe Indians have everything in their hands, hearts and souls, to guide the world with the intrinsic wisdom they are born with! They just have to bring out their true-self and bring them as whole to their families, society, work and be the true human being with all the wisdom inside. And this applies to all human beings in the world, for me also, as a Brazilian. It is just that, Indians have the blessing of being born in the same land where, for more than 4000 years, all the wisdom is simply around!

I work for Roche. All opinions expressed are my own and do not necessarily represent the position of my organisation.”


The secret of success – working with passion

I have just arrived from watching Cirque du Soleil and I was in awe…

Of course I was in awe for the spectacular show, but what called my attention specifically was the big smile, happiness and clear feeling of realization each actor had within themselves each time they finished an impossible performance.

It was clear to see that to come to this point, lots of dedication, training, concentration had to be there so they would come and delight the audience! …and the ones delighted the most were the actors themselves, seeing our faces in awe, our mouths open and our incessant clapping…

Their faces, their smiles, the whole aura emerging from each one of them, beautifully expressing their passion for what they are doing, the aura of love and enjoyment! Definitely they were working at another level, they were living their lives fully – the right life balance!

For some moments I had a familiar feeling, that exact moment when sensations and feelings in your body touch the memories and the “Budhi”, the intellect have the spark of light that transforms in a thought – “I know that I saw this already somewhere, I have a recollection of memories that made me feel the same and I know I saw this aura, this satisfaction already for sometime…” 🙂 then the clear images start to jump in my mind of all the moments and faces that I saw the same!

The joy just filled my mind and the deepest feeling of gratitude come to me – where have I seen the same incredible gratitude and pride as I have just experimented in the Cirque du soleil actors after doing the impossible and delighting the audience from their soul??

Yes…. the last 6 months I have seen it in our team faces each time they share a patient story, each time one of the family members share themselves their knowledge of quantum leadership or present the new Access Plan Framework….

Yes, it is incredible that we are being able to have the same joy working together the last months as this group performing the impossible acts….

I am not so sure if everyone in our team realizes these feelings and moments, but the ones who realize have been spreading their aura of loving their purpose in an incredible pace…

Definitely today I could see; when you truly love what you are doing, then you are really working for a higher service – the kind of work everybody wants to have, the one that brings delight in others! The one some people do not call work, call leisure!

Thanks so much the team in Roche India, for making my dream realize – to see purpose in the lives of each one, and see how many of us wake up in the morning smiling because is weekday and we can go to work to do what we enjoy the most!

I truly believe we are meant to be where we are – together and in India!!

Namaste – “the divine in me salutes the divine in you!”


Give back to India – India a Quantum society

Chennai team – Roche Pharma India

Last year when I had to choose my next step of my career, India came to my mind for 2 reasons, one because of the possibility to really make a difference and the second one to develop my spiritual side, since it is not a secret that every soul in this world has India as a place where one should go if is wanting so…

After talking to many people, some positive about my decision and others not so much, I noticed something interesting – normally the ones not so optimists were Indians :)))) and maybe because having an Indian blood or being born in India makes many things very much obvious and everything here is taken for granted – they told me that I might be disappointed if I would come for spiritual growth…

…dear friends from India – YES, you take for granted something absurdly obvious for many of us who were not born in India – India does have something truly special, a special goodness inside and whoever notices it can bring this to business and make a business that is for a greater good – for the benefit of society itself, country, and the humanity!!!!

In my last field visit to Chennai I had confirmed my high appreciation to Indian culture, Indians and their intrinsic sentiment of goodness and to give back to the country… I made an experiment, taking our vision and strategy to many people, and I just proved my theory right…

Talking to Doctors, to Professors, Persons who have interest in healthcare, all of them, in some part of the conversation mentioned that what they do, they do to give back to India. Doctors with great opportunities to stay abroad, to have the kids studying in Europe or US, had decided to come back to India, for different reasons… Either because here they make a difference and can help many patients that otherwise could not be treated, or to do much more than they were expected to do…

…some mentioned that in other countries they are Medical Doctors and full stop, here they help the families of the patients, they find ways to help the transport of the patients who face the big challenge to travel 10, 12 hours to have access to healthcare, or to try to start pharmacies that will give better access to medicines further away from the hospitals and assure then that their patients will comply with their treatment…

I came back from my first field visit in India understanding that I had taken the right decision, even about Quantum leadership I discussed with some of the doctors, one told me that in India we have to do things very differently and can not choose, con not prioritize, we have to have the organization of the British, but to be able to work in the diversity of the states and potentialize the everything-happening-at-the-same-time-differently-in-different-states… Is there anything more quantum than doing both/and instead of either/or?

Other Doctor has mentioned that he is doing an incredible research to try to find the cure of a certain disease, other Doctor making pro-bono transplants in public hospitals and publishing books about old scriptures to assure that the culture will be preserved…

In other conversation we have discussed how important is to have a purpose, how important is to be selfless and to assure that, whatever we do, we will have to, consciously, understand that this will have an impact in our world, in THE world. as a conclusion, we all have to work together in the benefit of the patients…

Finally everybody agreed, in different circumstances, that in India, companies that are doing a service to society, not just bringing free things, bringing value at a certain price, but only the companies that give back to society, to India, are truly successful and are sustainable, in India the goodness have to be part of your being, then being part of your being you are part of India. The quantum organization concept to be vision, value led…. and to be a green organization is essential! (Quantum leadership book – Danah Zorah)

Despite of all challenges we face, we MUST recognize that the last 5 years, somehow, a consciousness has been awakening among Indians and India, something magic is happening, something that is making India grow not materially only (besides coming from rank 143 to 100 in the list of ease to do business), India is living a magic moment, and we should thank the universe to be here right now… we should just go with the flow and help the magic to complete for India!

I have one word – KRITAGYATA!!!!! I am glad I have chosen to come to India and I am glad that I have embarked in this journey of the quantum leadership before coming here, there is no place where one can see everybody living at the edge, being playful with uncertainty, being vision led, value driven, being aware of a context that is super complex, but everybody that wants to give back to India is super connected at a different level, in tune with each other, playing together without a regent, without a guidance, in a wonderful harmony as a jazz jam session!!!! And the benefit of this beautiful magic can be India and the Indians!

I am ready to embark in this journey with India for Indians!!!! Thanks for welcoming me India!





How to guide humanity to the light? How to work with/for plenitud?

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Lara 11/2017 Mumbai Gateway

There is so much light in the world, there are so many people with willingness to do good, why do we struggle so much to live a full life, in peace, without regrets, doing what we like?

During my last months I have confirmed the theory I have lived my whole life with, what my mother has taught me and what I want to teach my children…

For you to be happy, you have to love EVERYTHING you do and find purpose and a positive impact in each word, each action you take.

The idea that we have to find what we love in order to feel that you are not working is not my philosophy or my belief… In this search-for-what-I-love many people feel frustrated and end up leaving behind super cool things in life because they feel something-is-missing!

With my childhood learnings, love-all-you-do  / find-meaning-in-all-you-do there are few times in my professional life that I felt miserable, or woke up wanting to change jobs… I remember once with my whole family going to our farm, there was a truck with the saying “You do not need to have all you love, you need to love everything you have” I remember us debating on it and my mother was always repeating it to us…

…Now I absolutely know – she just wanted to share with us her secret for being this endlessly happy smiley person! She wanted us to have light, and, learn to spread it as soon as we have acknowledged its presence…

Being in India the last 6 months I learned also that there is something that connect us all human beings – the goodness inside us, I have seen so much goodness and willingness to give-back-to India that it is impossible not to love what I am doing, how I am doing, where I am doing, with whom I am doing….

I heard always so much doubts about working for a pharma company, about working in a multinational, being executives, corporate people, all related to the image of cold, money driven,  ambitious people, but we will prove that human beings are human beings, and when we want to show the goodness inside, when we want to turn on the light inside, no matter where we are, we can do good, and we can impact beyond our imagination…

I am a mother that often has to choose between going to the teachers-parent conversation, children presentation or go to a strategy presentation, regional or global meeting – or better saying, can not choose, have to fulfill the professional responsibilities and prioritize many times work over family – how do I face my family, my husband, my children and myself at the mirror when I miss a unsubstitutable music presentation of one of my daughters????

Very, very, but, very consciously and in peace….. I just have to remember what I want my daughter to be when she is an adult… I want her to be a successful woman, that copes family and work, that talks about her life balance, a life balance and not a work life balance, because she simply loves what she is doing, and her children are happy when she is doing so and no one whines or makes bad faces to her when she is not in her daughter´s presentation. And when she comes back from her travel, her daughter just look at her, hugs her and asks “…how was your business trip mom, are you happy? Was your strategy approved to help many people? I hope it was ok, because my presentation was super cool and I want to show to you!!” :)))) Well, if I want my daughter to be as this, I have to give her the example, I have to just not regret, explain why I am travelling, explain that we are in India because this is our family purpose, to be wherever we can bring light and learn how to build much more light inside ourselves – and a perfect place for us to do so is here, is India, the light country!

Having a purpose in our lives helps us a lot to guide whatever we do, helps to love whatever we do. We can make anything meaningful in our life, the meaning, the passion, the purpose and the eternal plenitud exists inside ourselves and we are the ones who have to nurture it and we have two choices in our life….

  1. If you have many doubtful questions to yourself, you will live in doubt and you will be unhappy…
    “Could I be happier? Could I be doing something else more meaningful? Can I have more fulfilling life? Can I find something that I love more? Am I doing with my life what I have to? Did I do everything that I want at the right age? Should I work in a NGO to be more truthful with my life? Are my friends happier than I am? Should I spend more time with my kids? With my brother and sister? With my nephews and nieces? With my father? With my husband? Should I be doing more yoga? Should I be reading more? Should I be more healthier?…….” All the answers are a BIG YES which will make you frustrated….
  2. If you are glad and you genuinely want to be happy and make people around you happy your questions will be on how to do what you really want…
    “I have one hour with my kids, which book will I read with them that can make this moment memorable, something that will both make them have fun and will make this moment meaningful? I am travelling with my team and will be far away from my family, how do I take the best out of the time with my team and learn from them so I can share with my family when I am back? How I tell my family my daily work stories so they will understand the huge meaning my work has to me and how it makes me happy and fulfill our family purpose? What can I do today in my work that can make a difference in the world? Which words should I choose so I am sure that people around me will be more conscious rather than just living? I know that I can bring light or darkness from people, what exactly brings light from each individual I interact with? Which smile will I get from some face today that will make my day worthwile?…..”

It is so easy to make our life worth and learn to make the right choices, you have only to be sure what you want in your life and make your day be worth a smile in the end it, yours and the ones around you…

…India… has made me smile absurdly since I arrived, I know I was blessed with a super special team to work with, people that themselves have a higher purpose and are here to make a difference in India, and that they know that our work is not just a job, is a responsibility, so this turns to be our purpose…. Our Ikigai – What we love to do, What we are paid for, what we are good at and what is good for the world…. My Kritagyata to my family, to my extended family – my team, and to India!!!



Losing loving ones and your purpose

It is interesting to see how death can impact us differently depending on your life moment…

My mother’s death in 2016 has brought me to an incredible disbelief and loss of all faith.

It was the healing journey thereafter which brought back, in a exponential way, the faith, belief and spirituality. But the mourning was not helping towards life efficiency – to achieve its purpose, it was too much loss of faith in something greater…

Understanding death while living a process of discovering a dream, a vision, to put in practice your purpose, makes your life have much more meaning… makes you want to live intensely in order to accelerate your dream, on how to make your purpose real, much quicker…

Right now somehow a recent loss has triggered questions and an urge that had somehow helped me confirm why I am here, and what should I do…

I have questioned myself intensely lately if I am a good mother, a good wife, because somehow something very strong drags me to focus on my work, and I question, why am I in India, why am I helping India and why am I ok with all that it brings…

Can I be the mother and wife I have committed to, while doing what I feel I should do, what I know that I am meant to do?! It will not be a piece of cake…

This question brought me to a deeper question – what is to be a good wife, what is to be a good mother?

When we started to raise the kids we were challenged to identify one, one single thing to focus on, which we understood that would make the kids learn all in life…

After a huge reflection we came into a conclusion that this one thing would be discernment – we should teach our kids that they should learn to understand that all decisions in our lives have a consequence – so each step and breath we take, we should be conscious of, and understand that discernment by the end, somehow means that either you can bring darkness or light to each place you are, by taking different decisions… …and you can own your life by owing your decisions and being able to make the proper analysis each second, using your discernment…

Well, above all to teach discernment was a basis for them to understand that always, when you take your decisions for a greater good, and have use your discernment correctly; without doubt your whole life ends up falling into place and the Universe, God, the biggest Energy or all together guides you to the right direction…

So… if my husband and I want to teach our kids to have discernment and learn to think always in a greater good, in what would be best for the ones around us, and if I need to be active part of it – what is to be a good wife and a good mother…

I have to walk my talk!

It would be completely out of place to tell them that they have to understand their purpose in life and have a dream and, at the same time, let them see me giving up my own dream in order to do what I-think-that-others-think that is to be a good mother and good wife and be, “timely” speaking, available for my family…

What would I want my daughter to decide if they would ever be in a position like mine?

What would I ask them?

Which would be my conversation with Sasa and Lily?

I have no doubt what would be…

“My love, do your kids learn by what you say or by what you do? Your husband would like you to say say say things to your kids or for you to give them the example of what you really mean by doing a greater good and being a person to bring light whenever you are given the opportunity to do so???”

… and knowing my daughters, I know what would be the answer and I also know what they would do…

If I really want my kids to have discernment enough to choose the light path and take all opportunities the universe will give them to do so, they should be able to see from their mother, what I do when the opportunities appear and how I handle it…

…so, I thank from the bottom of my heart the lesson you are giving me Adriana… your journey to Heaven has shown me that, if I would have only 3 years more in my life I would like to give the example to my kids of what does it really means to live for a greater good, I would like to be there for them, and transform these 3 years in beautiful moments where they would remember why we are here in life and that I would never ever have regretted have lived the life God send me to live….

God bless you Adriana and know that you have reached lives that you might not even imagine, God guide your kids and husband so they will find the comfort in doing good things in their life on your behalf…

I will miss hearing from you…

Existence · India

India – first month_infinite possibilities

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The first month had gone like one second, and the soul feels like it has been one year, so familiar, so warm…

India has this mix, where one can live opposites in the same moment, where the impossible is possible, where there is no one life, but many in one, where the dark is not something itself, but the absence of light, where the bad is not one whole something, but the absence of good, but all is there, and you choose what you want, but the true – there is too much light, too much good, too much everything…

No expectation could have been so beautifully met, taking all senses in consideration.

It is amazing how India has this power of having so beautiful people with so infinite possibilities and so much humility, eyes looking and trying to figure out what is out there to learn, waiting for the possibility to connect with something inside that always exists, something bigger, something beautiful.

India is like an ocean of infinite possibilities which can be seen if you turn on the right light at the right moment, and when the light is turned off, still the infinite possibilities are there, just waiting for the right person to arrive at the right place on the right moment. …or the right connection among right people to happen so the right flow of energy is released and magic happens, the light is turned on and this channel to this ocean of infinite possibilites is opened!

I am blessed that I could experience already once the huge energy of this moment happening, I have been honored with the possibility of being on the right moment at the right place, of arriving now in Mumbai, with this team…. …and on several moments, I felt this bliss happening, seeing different people’s soul smiling because there was something bigger happening, something like an union of the present moment with the emerging beautiful future moment raising right in front of us, which we have been able to capture because our connection was there, the souls opened and united to make a difference.

We are all human beings and we are all not perfect, at the same time, we all have something very special, something different, something which can be complemented by each other. The magic happens when we discover that we have to let it go of ourselves and we have to find this something special inside others, and when each one finds the something special in each other and thank the other, honor the special Being in the other, there is a completeness that emerges, because we are one, and this one is the perfection!

… and this is only the beginning, somehow it scares a little as the bar is set so high with this first experience, that I feel like indeed there is an ocean of infinite possibilities inside each one of us, together being very very big, and opening it brings also a huge responsibility, as many can benefit from it, who today would not have the chance… For this I am very grateful to be where I am and that whatever we do, can indeed have an impact, the one I was waiting for, the one I was asking to be able to connect to since long ago…

The only thing that I can promise to myself is to be loyal to my own purpose and my family’s, to make a difference in any country we are blessed to have the opportunity to live, and to try our best to make the lives of the ones close to us, brighter and with more sense of purpose to make this world each day a better place for ourselves!

I am really glad for having been in Venezuela the last 5 years, PHD on really living for a purpose, independently of the challenge you face, sticking to what is more noble and having to remember each second what is a greater good, I had wonderful masters, hundreds of gurus within my team and around the country – I am ready to embark in a journey where my PHD can be used to the further fulfill my purpose!!

Someone from Venezuela told me a phrase while congratulating me for the appointment in India “There is no casualties, only causalities!!!” could not agree more….

(Thanks Shilpika and Sonal for the beautiful picture!)

Existence · Thoughts&Learning

One religion, one country, one planet, one universe – we are stronger together, to find love, peace…. Leading is uniting, not separating…

Insight…. HUGE insight coming from these last 2 months…

My mother search was for unit, for connection, the one that makes all one, the one which do not separate science from religion, mind from body, but still we live in world which label everything, and by labelling, you separate things, you loose the power that exists in each individual build the whole….

The last 2 months I am reading, studying the different ways different beliefs, cultures teach one to find his/her inner peace, inner realization, own spiritual fulfillment. I started by Hinduism, Budhism, coming to Tolteca’s culture and last week, Kabbalah.

It is amazing how similar they are, somehow is like they would be all seeing the same, reading the same, but then expressing it differently. Meaning, the same fact, with different interpretations….

All religions are seeking love, peace, through kindness, all them have ¨punishment¨, being it hell or Karma, Tikun, meaning consequences whenever you take a decision, being ¨good¨or ¨bad¨, so all religions also guide you in the direction fo having dicernment, knowing that all consequences are both to you and to the ones around you.

But the amazing part is the detail – All of them talk about similar things as Maya (budhism), Mitote (Toltecas) ilusion that one has that blurs the real knowledge, this is the 1% of oneself, it is separated by a curtain or smoke from the 99% of one’s knowledge that really means something, as the real spiritual heaven, in quantic physics, the field, by the end, the real oneself… where all the knowledge lies…. you access it when you have an insight, and all the religions, beliefs, try to make this insigh moment long more and more, meaning that you should live in the moment of wisdom.

The interesting is that human being in earth today is loosing the focus by separating itself; religions are fighting for ¨their God¨, not to find the beauty in it simply, but to make all others disappear… Politicians are fighting to have their ideology as the right, not allowing any other to be even discussed, countries are fighting to have more power, wealth. But I really believe that this is the storm before the peace!

At the same time, we have a Pope who is preaching to respect all religions, because love, God exists in all of them, and they all want the best for humanity… Pope Francis is remembering us why we are here in the first place… We are here to live and to live happily, each moment, and the best way for finding happiness is to help others….

I am totally in favour of supporting Pope Francis in this fight to unit religions and to unit ideologies, unit countries, unit the planet earth!

I am tired of seeing families spliting because of politics, I am tired of seeing power being the main objective…

It is time for us to elevate ourselves spiritually, by respecting all and by understanding that what differs from us makes us wiser, because you can only learn from what is different from you.

I am IN LOVE with this Pope, Pope Francis has just won not a piece of my heart, but my whole heart, my soul, my mind!

Let us all seek for a purpose, for common objetive to help the planet, to make our countries stronger, our families diverse and wiser, let us do what we are suppose to do here, together elevate ourselves spiritually and have different worries, as how to learn more, how to make our lives more enjoyable…

I am in favour of one religion, one politics, one ideology, but not because all others disappear, but indeed because we figure out that the differences are what make us stronger, so we value how deep a different idea makes us wiser, either to confirm our beliefs, or to improve them!!!

…I am in favour of one religion, one politics, one ideology, all serching God, love, ultimately, inner peace and spiritual fulfillment!!!

Join me! I need company!!!!

Existence · Thoughts&Learning

Escape, Piña Colada – value what you have, partner or job!!! Learning from music!

pina colada My old lady its U

My mother always told me to take care not to loose something you do care, but do not give the proper care… This was mainly regarding things I used to take for granted. I remember when I had a boy friend and I was always comparing and looking something I did not have. Then suddenly ,when you less expect, you loose the person and then you regret hugely…

It is the same for ANY relationship, being it work or love partner, or even friends…

The music that represented it the most is Escape!!! It strikes me how much books or music had always opened my eyes. Probably music means so much because who writes it feels something so deeply inside, and it is so important that they need to share, and some of them master it hugely!

When I heard the Piña Colada first time, I thought it was other silly music of summer break. …but one day, just listening to it, exactly when I was questioning many things, by paying attention to its lyrics, it brought me a light, an insight….

The music tells about a man who answers to a post in the newspaper attracted by the adventurous and different things this woman offers. Despite of loving his wife, he answers to the post to try new things with a stranger. When he goes to meet her, inmediately he recognizes his wife, she was the stranger in the post – and they simply laugh… Then he tells her that if she likes all she told in the post, she is the woman he is looking for!!!!

Many times we are in a relationship, being it a job or a marriage, and even if we like a lot, it comes to a point when you want more, you start to make demands, or you start to question everything. How many times we criticize a person who you love, just because you “want to help”?

How many times you question your job thinking, ok I like a lot my job, but, is it what I really want???

Well, your doubts of today are your obstacles for tomorrow, and if you do not value what you have, mainly when you know you like it, you will loose it……

Last week, when I started to run again, I was listening to my favorite songs, and Escape was among them – I was in this period where you question things, and I was very much critical of my husband, then, suddenly the song started, and one starts to think, listen to the music and thinking what if HE is tired? What if HE looks for something else? And myself? Am I in danger of doing anything stupid?? …and the music follows and then comes this so nice part when the man recognizes his wife, and he thinks “I knew her smile in an instant, I knew the curve of her, it was my lovely lady…” and she says “oh it’s you…” but they laugh together, and finally they find love again in each other… well I started to cry thinking how silly I am… My husband does love me and I have everything I asked for…

I think ,I am probably the happiest woman on earth, I have absolutely everything I wished for, I really appreciate a lot everything in my life, and finally we also get trapped by this wishful thoughts of nothing but phantasies…

Well… the song has awaken me once again and I am so thankful of having heard it again!!!

I love a lot my husband, my children, my job and everything around!

Thanks to the song, and I wanted to share my experience, I tell you all – be happy with your partner, with your job, find everything that you are glad for, and if, only if, you can not find anything indeed, then you must make a change, but if you find many things you have forgotten… hope you are not in a trouble yet, because our atittude when we are not grateful is terrible and can take things in a way when regrets, and most of the time is a no-turn-around-road.

So look carefully to your job, to your partner, to all your relationships and evaluate if you really should criticize so much, and if you are being thankful enough!

This is the best exercise one can do!!!  Look for everything one can be thankful for…

So… enjoy the journey, I am doing it!!!

I leave you with the song! Video and lyrics below!

Escape (The Piña Colada song)

I was tired of my lady  (Estaba cansado de mi mujer / Estava cansado da minha mulher)
We’d been together too long (Estamos juntos ya por demasiado tiempo /  estamos juntos por muito tempo)
Like a worn-out recording (Como una grabacion muy oida / como uma gravação muito escutada)
Of a favorite song (de tu cancion favorita / da sua musica favorita)
So while she lay there sleeping (Entonces mientras ella esta dormida / então enquanto ela esta dormindo)
I read the paper in bed (Yo leo el periodico en la cama / eu leio o jornal na cama)
And in the personal columns (Y en las columnas personales / E nas colunas pessoais)
There was this letter I read (Habia esta carta que he leido / Encontrei esta carta que eu li)

Chorus 1:
“If you like Pina Coladas  (Si a ti te gustan las pinas coladas / Se voce gosta de Pina colada)
And getting caught in the rain  (Y ser agarrado por la lluvia / e ser pego pela chuva)
If you’re not into yoga  (Si no eres de yoga / Se não é a fim de yoga)
If you have half a brain   (Si tiene medio cerebro / Se tem meio cerebro)
If you’d like making love at midnight   (Si te gusta hacer el amor a la media noche / Se gosta e fazer amor a meia noite)
In the dunes on the Cape  (En las dunas del Cabo / Nas dunas do Cabo)
Then I’m the love that you’ve looked for   (Entonces soy el amor que buscas / Então sou o amor que voce procura)
Write to me and escape.” (Escriba me y huya / Escreva-me e vamos e fuja)

I didn’t think about my lady   (Yo no pense en mi mujer / Eu não pensei na minha mulher)
I know that sounds kind of mean  (Se que parece malo / Eu sei que parece perverso)
But me and my old lady  (Pero mi “vieja” mujer y yo / mas minha velha mulher e eu)
Have fallen into the same old dull routine (Cayemos en la misma rutina aburrida / Caimos na velha rotina monotona)
So I wrote to the paper  (Entonces escribi al periodico / então escrevi ao jornal)
Took out a personal ad  (hice un anuncio personal / fiz um anuncio pessoal)
And though I’m nobody’s poet (Y a pesar de no ser ningun poeta / E apesar de não ser nenhum poeta)
I thought it wasn’t half bad (Pense que no estaba nada malo / Pensei que não estava nada mau)

Chorus 2:
“Yes I like Pina Coladas  (Si, me gusta Pina coladas, Sim eu gosto de pina coladas)
And getting caught in the rain  (Y ser agarrado por la lluvia / e ser pego pela chuva)
I’m not much into health food  (No soy de comida saludable / Não sou muito de comidas saudaveis)
I am into champagne (Yo soy de champagne / Sou de champagne)
I’ve got to meet you by tomorrow noon  (Tengo que verte mañana medio dia / Tenho que te ver amanhã ao meio dia)
And cut through all this red-tape  (Y pasar por toda esta cerimonia / e passar por toda essa cerimonia)  
At a bar called O’Malley’s   (En el bar llamado O’Malley’s / No bar chamado O’Malley’s)
Where we’ll plan our escape.”  (Cuando planearemos nuestra fuga / Quando planejaremos nossa fuga)

So I waited with high hopes   (entonces espere con alta expectativa / então esperei com alta expectativa)
And she walked in the place  (Y ella entro en el lugar / E ela entrou no lugar)
I knew her smile in an instant (Yo conoci su sonrisa en un instante / Eu conheci seu sorriso em um instante)
I knew the curve of her face  (Yo conocia la curva de su rostro / Eu conhecia a curva do seu rosto)
It was my own lovely lady  (Era mi propia querida mujer / Era minha propria amada mulher)
And she said, “Oh it’s you.”  (Y ella dice “ah, eres tu…”/ E ela disse “ah, é voce….”)
Then we laughed for a moment  (Entonces nos reimos por un momento / Então rimos por um momento) 
And I said, “I never knew  (…y yo dice “Yo nunca supe… / … e eu le disse “Eu nunca soube…)

That you like Pina Coladas  (que te gustaban las pinas coladas / que voce gostava de pina coladas)
Getting caught in the rain  (Y ser agarrada por la lluvia / e ser pega pela chuva)
And the feel of the ocean (y el sentir del oceano / e o toque do oceano)
And the taste of champagne (y el sabor del champagne / e o sabor do champagne)
If you’d like making love at midnight  (Si te gusta hacer el amor media noche / se voce gosta de fazer amor a meia noite)
In the dunes of the Cape (en las dunas del Cabo / Nas dunas do cabo)
You’re the lady I’ve looked for  (Tu eres la mujer que yo busco / Voce é a mulher que eu procuro)
Come with me and escape.” (Acompañame y huimos / Venha comigo e escapemos!)